This is an enjoyable parody of the popular ‘reality’ type shows where people compete to be deemed ‘ok’ by a panel of judges they seem to admire and fear. I admit, I am a fan of American Idol, although my schedule does not let me watch it that often. Jumping right on that bandwagon, it seems that every possible field has some version of this show format, where people tremble before a group of power crazed judges, hoping they can fit in.

Clearly, those in this video are good sports, and are mocking this process, while acknowledging the ‘guido’ stereotype so often portrayed in ‘wiseguy’ movies. I could not help but chuckle along – the point of this video, clearly – while also enjoying the Brooklyn/North Jersey vernacular, as I was born in Brooklyn, and raised in Jersey.

My other thought was that too many people never take the time to ask themselves who they really are, and would rather spend their time trying hopelessly to fit in, or be like some self-concocted image of somebody else. Here is a concept: try being yourself! There is nothing interesting about a second rate imitation. By the way, identification with a group does not mean you are a clone. You can be both part of a group, and also maintain your own personal identity. The point I am making, is that whoever you are, and whatever group or groups you belong to, you should find your own voice and style.

If it is your dream to become a ‘guido’, or a singer, or a designer, or whatever, do it in a way that is unique to you. This is true for everything. Don’t try to sound like another singer, try to sound like you. Don’t be a ridiculous Sopranos clone, do it your own way. There is a huge difference in the price of an original painting, versus an imitation. The same is true for a Gucci handbag. The same is true for you.

You will be much more interesting when you discover who you are, and be that without apologizing, rather than a cheap imitation of anyone else.